Crystallized sugar syrup?

[iddee]

>>>>sometimes what you think is just better left unsaid,<<<<

I will take that advice at this time.

[Cindi]

Paul, has your question about how to contact someone personally be answered?  I am not sure if it has.  If my definition of how to contact has already been answered, pardon my butting in and ignore my simple comment here.

When you see someone that you wish to talk to on the forum is online, click on their "name", their profile will come up.  At the bottom of their profile information there is a button that you can push that says something like "send this member a PM".  That is a personal mail.  The person will receive that personal mail pretty quickly and you can respond to each other that way, back and forth.  Did this help in your quandry?  Have that wonderful, most awesome day, health, life.  Cindi

[beemaster]

Just a reminder here...

We strictly stick by agree to disagree and ignore things that bother us - debating issues is a possitive way to learn,  where as arguing them only causes troubles - we don't argue, or purposesly make other's feelings hurt here - new and old members need to remember that.

Once you have said your piece, let it lie - if something was said or taken out of context - then explain but again leave it alone.

HOLLYBEEs - we have a live text chat on the forum main page with a link to a full chatroom - it is mostly busy in the evenings, but is also throughout the day. It may be an easy way to find answers immediately.

But boys and girls, little zaps at each other, even when NOT referring to member names is not healthy - ignore what you offended by, and likely the material will thread away from the bad part of the topic.

This isn't Shangrala, but it isn't Howard stern's site either. Please don't let little things offend you - being family friendly softens most people, letting their feelings get hurt easily - returning fodder to someone why offends you puts the ball in their court, ignoring negative posts is always the best bet.

But if it is hurful directly, then use the report to moderator link in every post window and let us take it frim there.

I just hope that we all don't turn into a bunch of softies and expect everything to be politically correct - that is sensorship and to many people have died for gift of speaking there minds - the trick is to explain their points without offending, we have no reason here to argue or fight and in the same point - it is better to ASK why another member feels that way, then it become dialog.

'm shutting down this post. Please remember people are all different and in order to be family friendly, yo need to sta on your best behaviour.